Fish on a Hook
An Acceptance and Commitment Therapy Metaphor
Your feelings about this person/situation is like having a fish on a hook. As long
as the person/situation is there in front of you, you can see that he/she/it is wriggling
and in pain. But the only way to make sure that he/she/it stays on that fishhook is to
have yourself on that fishhook too, between the fishhook and the person who is hooked.
The question is, Is it worth it?