Becoming a Lawyer for your Family Traditions
Becoming a Lawyer for your Family Traditions
Based on a metaphor submitted to ACBS by Richard Whitney
Has your mind tricked you into taking on the role as a defense lawyer for your family traditions?
Becoming a Lawyer for your Family Traditions
Based on a metaphor submitted to ACBS by Richard Whitney
Has your mind tricked you into taking on the role as a defense lawyer for your family traditions?
Many of us struggle with thoughts that are difficult, painful, unhelpful or just annoying. Part of the problem is that these thoughts tend to follow us around: Even if we go to Mexico, our painful thoughts will probably come along for the ride. Of course there are many distractions that we can use to…
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Researchers actually do call it the “what the heck” effect (or something close to that). It refers to the moment when you realize that you’ve blown your calorie goal for the day, so you might as well order pizza and beer. Or the moment when you have one cigarette at a party and go on…
You’ve been trying to win the war with your mind, with your anxiety, with your depression, with your anger, with whatever. True? Well, acceptance is about letting the war roll on while you leave the battlefield.